Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts

Friday, October 22, 2010

Hard to reach Second base...



...if your foot is still on first (and I don't mean this as a dating metaphor).



It is true that at times we have to leave first to get to second. Some corollary aphorisms are:


    • Any ship is safe as long as it stays in port, but that's not what ships are made for
    • The dangers of life are infinite and safety is among them (Goethe)
The point being that safety is attractive and comfortable, but probably not for all of us. It is certainly not for those who strive to do something new.  Most new activities, especially those that could become great, involve some risk or perceived risk. Chris Guillebeau asked the question "What would you do if you knew you could not fail"

That's a powerful question and I think the answer is obvious. We would change the world. Well, to extend my original metaphor, if changing the world is a homerun, then we certainly can't get there with our foot on first. If we set out to change the world and we only make it to second or third base, we've still done something pretty great.

Sounds like we should go for it.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Fear might be a good thing

Fear is an important reflex. In the past, and in certain situations, it tells us to flee. It provides us with the tools to survive horrific and dangerous situations.
Today, however, for most of us, we feel fear when we have to give a presentation, ask someone out for a date, or sing karaoke (I love karaoke). While these feel very scary, they are not likely to injure us in anyway. So what purpose is the fear serving?
None really and it might be holding you back.
My friend Chris Guillebeau (who I have never me, but am convinced we would be friends if I did) reminds us to do something that scares you every day. I think that is great advice!
Chris has a great blog about living a remarkable life. If you're needing a lift, check it out.